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11 BEHAVIORS THAT WILL DRIVE YOU TO SUCCESS

1. Believe people have good intentions   Since you don't read minds, you can't know what is hidden in the hearth of men. Believe people have good intentions will make you be at peace e with yourself and them too. It will make you be put together and ready to meet people. But assuming people have  bad intentions will make you miserable and add more worries and trouble to your life. 2. Avoid spending time with negative people    You are influenced by people around you, by people you spend time with. Simply put, when you spend a lot of time with negative people, you're mostly to become just like them. 3. Avoid the use of negativity speeches    Negativity is the unsuccessful people. If you want to be successful, stop saying phrases like "I CAN'T... ", "IMPOSSIBLE" etc. Instead say "HOW CAN I... ", IT'S POSSIBLE " etc. Our mind is programmed by what we say and hear,  and your subconscious works with that. 4. Always be exp...

Life is not a fast lane

In our outings everyday, despite what anyone might say, nothing worthwhile ever happens in a hurry. Somethings do get through by accident though, but our successes in life comes through a well prepared and determined process and not in a rush....

INSTRUCTIONS AND GUIDELINES

There are rules in every aspects of life. There are guidelines in every field we are into. Being good in what you do and following the instructions that comes with it are two different things.... There is always a direction and answer concerning every step you take in whatever you do, even though it's great to go outside the box sometimes.. As from today, as you step out , don't ignore the instructions that comes with your work. Let your zeal for your work be accompanied by the knowledge of that work. Familiarity and laziness should not prevent you going extra mile in your achievements... Create time to search for more knowledge and instructions concerning various areas of your work. Force yourself to do it if that is the case... Don't take it for granted... Good morning

YOU ARE YOU. DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANYONE .

Never compare yourself with anybody. That is one battle you can never win. You are YOU!. Yes! The year is ending and people are giving accounts of success recorded. And you wish to be like him or her who has achieved everything... Hey! Appreciate yourself. You also have different accounts to give. That person you wish to be has his or her own story, life's battle and challenges. But they concealed it to move on. Why not do the same?.. Value your worth. You insult yourself by comparing yourself with others. Your uniqueness is the difference between you and others. Don't kill your confidence by comparing yourself to others. Stay focused on your own journey and leave footprints behind... As you step out this week, never mind what others do. Be more concerned in beating you own records. Compete and beat the one you see in the mirror everyday.

Make time for visualisation

Visualisation is living the future you want today through the power of the mind. Be in solitude and picture the kind of future you want in your mind. See it as clear as possible, draw it down or describe it. Use present tense while describing it. Own it, believe you are already there, the more you do this the better you will become at it. This works effectively , though you may not agree totally with me but there is no harm in trying .

Smart phone addiction

While a smartphone, tablet, or computer can be a hugely productive tool, compulsive use of these devices can interfere with your daily life, work, and relationships. When you spend more time on social media or playing games than you do interacting with real people, or you can’t stop yourself from repeatedly checking texts, emails, news feeds, websites, or apps—even when it has negative consequences in your life—it may be time to reassess your technology use.

There is no hopeless situation.

No matter the results of this week, one thing should be clear to you. There is no hopeless situation. We only have men and women who have decided to be hopeless about the situations around them.... It is better to do all you know how to do and see the outcome than to conclude on options you have not utilised....

The 7 Don'ts of Life.

i. Don't wait for your life to become perfect before you become happy. Instead become happy and your life will be perfect. ii. Don't use physical beauty alone to judge who becomes the love of your life or you may end up with the mistake of your life!

Taking responsibility: From childhood to maturity

When you're growing up,from an early age you become conditioned to see yourself as not responsible for your life.  This is normal and natural. When you are a child, your parent are in charge. They make all your decisions ;food, clothes, toys, outing, school etc.  Because you are young, innocent and unknowing, you do what they want you to do. You have little choice or control. As you grow up, however, you begin to make more and more of your own decisions in each of these areas. But because of your early programming, you are conditioned unconsciously to feel that someone else is still responsible for your life, that there is still someone else out there who can or should take care of you. Most people grow up to believe that if something goes wrong, someone else is responsible. Someone else is the villain and they are the victim. As a result, most people make more and more excuse for the things in lives, past and present, that makes them unhappy.

What is inside you. Positive or Negative?

What comes out of you when situations of life and the challenges of your endeavors squeezes you? You only brings out what is inside of you. It doesn't matter what or who does the squeezing. If you are challenged or pressurised in your work, what comes out of you is what is inside you. And what is inside you is your choice... And your choice has direct impact on your results. When you allow anger, bitterness, frustration, fear and hatred to come out of you, you present yourself with disappointing results. On the other hand, when you let out boldness, courage, wisdom and inspiration even when challenges abound, you open yourself to great success....What would you like to be defined with in the course of your work and life? Make a wise choice today!

SEVEN LOGIC OF A HAPPY LIFE

*Make peace with your past,so it doesn't spoil your present because the things you do in the present affects the future .  *What others think of you is none of your business but what you think of yourself is the most important thing and it determines your outlook. *Time heals almost everything even the deepest wound or feeling; both bad and negative; give the time some time, be patient and hopeful. *No one is the reason of your happiness except yourself. You create the happiness around you and only you have the power to choose to be happy. *Don't compare your journey with others you have no idea of what their journey is all about and you might not be heading to the same place. *Stop thinking too much. Create time to have fun and loosen up. *It alright not to know all. No one can be an island of knowledge, you know some I know some, that's how the world is.

Attitude to work: Love what you do

Good morning everyone, It's a new week! Some of us do pray for a longer night especially when faced with the expectations of going out to do what we are not passionate about...This mindset alone already set the tone of negativity in our work. We are most times not able to handle the challenges and setbacks due to the lack of drive we woke up with... It's true some of us are in places we are not happy and comfortable with. But carrying on with such attitude won't make us better in anyway. You are expected to bring in good results. And the only way you can actually produce great results is to love what you do... It might not be the best as regards your qualifications or experiences. No matter what your job may be - boss or employee; plant manager or factory worker; doctor or nurse; lawyer or secretary ; teacher or student ;housewife or maid - you owe it to yourself to find satisfaction in your job as long as you have it. Satisfaction is a mental attitude. Your own mental a...

Advice from Bill Gates

Here’s some advice Bill Gates recently dished out at a high school speech about 11 things they did not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teaching has created a full generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept sets them up for failure in the real world. RULE 1 Life is not fair – get used to it. RULE 2 The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. RULE 3 You will NOT make 40 thousand dollars a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice president with car phone, until you earn both. RULE 4 If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure. RULE 5 Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping they called it Opportunity. RULE 6 If you mess up,it’s not your parents’ ...

How to organize your day

We all feel the need to get more organized. No matter how organized you can be used will still feel you can improve. Mostly organized people feel they are not organized. The best time to organize your day is to start a night before. The thought you invest in planning your day before you begin,the more important things you will do and faster u will get them done once you get started. This principle can all work together or separately. It all depends on you to apply them which ever way it suits you. This are the principles below : 1. Make a list: Make a list of all you want to do, where you want to go and everything you think you will do or attend to. It could be a book you like to read, a n event you want to attend,e.t.c. Make this list of everything you have to do for the coming day. 2. Think on paper : Always think on paper. This simply means writing down everything you need to do on paper. Many a times when we intend to do something and we forget because it is not written. W...

Which of these quotes speaks to you?

1. "As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected from something good, I was actually being re-directed to something better" 2. "Don’t wait for other people to be loving, giving, compassionate, grateful, forgiving, generous, or friendly... lead the way!" Don't put myself at the mercy of people. Thinking they will do this or that for you. It doesn't work. You can do for yourself what you expect others to do for you. Respect, love and care for yourself and you will be amazed how these can turn the tide for you. 3. "My past has not defined me, destroyed me, deterred me, or defeated me; it has only strengthened me.” 4.“Learn from your history but don’t live in it.” This means that you should not avenge of the bad norms done to you but beware & have it in memory. 5. “Your life begins to change the day you take responsibility for it.” 6. “Stop blaming outside circumstances for your inside chaos.” 7. “Yo...