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A young lady sat in a bus. At the next stop a loud and grumpy old lady came and sat next to her. She squeezed into the seat and bumped her with her numerous bags. The person sitting on the other side of the young lady got upset, asked her why she did not speak up and say something. The young lady responded with a smile: "It is not necessary to be rude or argue over something so insignificant, the journey together is so short. Anyway, I get off at the next stop." This response deserves to be written in golden letters: "It is not necessary to argue over something so insignificant, our journey together is so short" If each one of us realised that our time here is so short so why darken it with: Quarrels and fights, Futile arguments, Not forgiving others, Discontentment and A fault finding attitude all are a waste of time and energy. Did someone break your heart? "Be calm, the journey is so short." Did someone betray, bully, cheat or humiliate ...

How you handle disappointments goes a long way to determine your success. Most times, to get to that peak, you need disappointments on your way to keep you on your toes... You need people and situations who will try to intimidate and disappoint you so that you can be courageous. You need people who will say "NO'' to your every request so that you can learn to be independent.... But we get so bitter when we are disappointed not knowing it's the beginning of a new phase in our life and work. Every disappointment and challenge comes with it's own hidden package for us... Don't work yourself up on a closed door while a new open stares right at you..

1. Believe people have good intentions   Since you don't read minds, you can't know what is hidden in the hearth of men. Believe people have good intentions will make you be at peace e with yourself and them too. It will make you be put together and ready to meet people. But assuming people have  bad intentions will make you miserable and add more worries and trouble to your life. 2. Avoid spending time with negative people    You are influenced by people around you, by people you spend time with. Simply put, when you spend a lot of time with negative people, you're mostly to become just like them. 3. Avoid the use of negativity speeches    Negativity is the unsuccessful people. If you want to be successful, stop saying phrases like "I CAN'T... ", "IMPOSSIBLE" etc. Instead say "HOW CAN I... ", IT'S POSSIBLE " etc. Our mind is programmed by what we say and hear,  and your subconscious works with that. 4. Always be exp...

In our outings everyday, despite what anyone might say, nothing worthwhile ever happens in a hurry. Somethings do get through by accident though, but our successes in life comes through a well prepared and determined process and not in a rush....

There are rules in every aspects of life. There are guidelines in every field we are into. Being good in what you do and following the instructions that comes with it are two different things.... There is always a direction and answer concerning every step you take in whatever you do, even though it's great to go outside the box sometimes.. As from today, as you step out , don't ignore the instructions that comes with your work. Let your zeal for your work be accompanied by the knowledge of that work. Familiarity and laziness should not prevent you going extra mile in your achievements... Create time to search for more knowledge and instructions concerning various areas of your work. Force yourself to do it if that is the case... Don't take it for granted... Good morning

Never compare yourself with anybody. That is one battle you can never win. You are YOU!. Yes! The year is ending and people are giving accounts of success recorded. And you wish to be like him or her who has achieved everything... Hey! Appreciate yourself. You also have different accounts to give. That person you wish to be has his or her own story, life's battle and challenges. But they concealed it to move on. Why not do the same?.. Value your worth. You insult yourself by comparing yourself with others. Your uniqueness is the difference between you and others. Don't kill your confidence by comparing yourself to others. Stay focused on your own journey and leave footprints behind... As you step out this week, never mind what others do. Be more concerned in beating you own records. Compete and beat the one you see in the mirror everyday.

Visualisation is living the future you want today through the power of the mind. Be in solitude and picture the kind of future you want in your mind. See it as clear as possible, draw it down or describe it. Use present tense while describing it. Own it, believe you are already there, the more you do this the better you will become at it. This works effectively , though you may not agree totally with me but there is no harm in trying .