Always Delay Judgment

No matter who you are, how experienced you are and how knowledgeable you think you are, always try to delay judgement. Give others the privilege to explain themselves. What you see may not be the real thing. Never conclude in your head for or on others. That is why we should never judge others without understanding them first.

Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they are stupid but they understand the concept of responsibility.

Those who apologize first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the relationship they have built.

Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you any thing but because they see you as a true friend.

Those who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because cos you are in their heart.

Those who take out time to chat with you, do not mean they are jobless or less busy, but they know the importance of keeping in touch.

One day, we will all get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything & nothing; the dreams that we had. Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare...

One day our children will see our pictures and ask 'Who are these people?' And we will smile because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: 'IT WAS THEM THAT I HAD THE BEST DAYS OF MY LIFE WITH'.

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